The Personality of a Scorpio Man, Explained

The Personality of a Scorpio Man, Explained
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One of the most mysterious Zodiac signs, Scorpio can be extremely, unfairly attractive, but more often than not it ends with a heartbreak for someone.

Scorpios have intense energy. They're quite good at it, actually, which is why they're the zodiac sign most likely to get into trouble. But that doesn't mean Scorpios aren't very fun, especially when they're in the company of their loved ones or friends, people who they feel safe with. Because, contrary to popular belief, this isn't a black-and-white world — what makes a Scorpio a Scorpio is not some mystery that we need to piece together like a maze. They're moody, yes, and they're shady, sure, but deep down, Scorpios just want to get along and be happy like the rest of us.

Scorpio is one of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac. Scorpio is sometimes seen as cold or even secretive. However, if there is one thing about this particular sign that is true, it is that there is no dull moment when it comes to relationships.

You might not want to ask Scorpio their feelings about the opposite sex or what's happening in their love life, but they will let you know exactly what they think.

Scorpio is used to being in control of their own destiny, and their relationships are no exception. When Scorpio is involved in a romantic relationship, they are usually the one in charge. This is not to say that Scorpio cannot compromise, but the drive to be the main decision-maker in their life is not going to go away easily. As a result of their determination to be in charge in all things, Scorpio can be very demanding.

Scorpios can also be incredibly attentive and affectionate. Since Scorpio is a sign that can be seductive to others, they are also very good at falling in love. However, it is never easy for this extremely sexual sign to let their partners go and it can take a long time for them to trust again. Scorpio can often feel as if they need a constant reminder that their relationships are important to them, and in many cases, they even want more commitment than their partners are ready to give.

Scorpio can develop quite intense attachments with someone very quickly, often breaking the hearts of those around them as a result.

What Scorpio Think About Love

If you were thinking about marrying or have just started a new relationship with someone with a Scorpio Sun in your life, then here is what you need to know.

Scorpios believe in passionate love and it will come at a price.

Scorpio feels a deep attraction for their partner, especially when there is so much passion between them. However, as a sign that is ruled by Venus, it is also known for being seductive and voracious. This is something that they are particularly good at, and love can often come at a high cost. They want passionate love, but they will expect it to be more than passionate, having very high, if not unreasonably high even, expectations for a romantic partner.

The best way to be in a Scorpio's life is to be passionate, but at the same time loyal and honest with them. If you're not, your relationship will feel stilted.

Scorpios, given how charismatic they are, will always have a number of options when it comes to people that they can be in a relationship with, so you'll need to do all that you can to reassure Scorpio that they are the only one that you want to be with. Otherwise, they will be jealous and, sooner rather than later, they will leave. It's the same as it would be for anyone, but it's worse for someone who is ruled by the planet of love.

Furthermore, Scorpios like passionate love, and it's an amazing feeling, but they want something that's going to last for a long time. They want an emotional bond that you have to work to build. They want something that is going to challenge them. They want something that they can be passionate about every day for the rest of their lives. This isn't a bad thing, but it's a lot of work in a romantic relationship they expect you to do.